My 24 year old niece did exactly what I expected she would do, go back with her abusive boyfriend.

About 1 month ago she called up at 10pm saying he was cheating on her and she was leaving him. Now she was over 8 months pregnant so a whole bunch of family went over and moved her that late at night. She took anything that was hers, took money out of the bank, and used all their EBT card they had. She swore all along it’s over, that’s it. I laughed at her then saying, I’ll give you a couple of weeks. Well I think they may have made it a month. lol

He cheated on her while she was 8 months pregnant, he treats her like a slave, and she loves him so all of that is OK. The sad thing is they have a new baby in the middle of this now. They’re staying in a trailer that should be condemned. It’s really not fit for human habitat.

We’ll it’s not the first time shes left him and it won’t be the last. The sad thing is she worn out her help. Everyone now seems to say, let her figure it out on her own. We won’t be losing any sleep and wasting any money helping her again. I guess some chicks sorta like a little abuse, turns them on.

If she’s dumb enough to go back then she’s dumb enough to figure her own way out without anybodys help this time. She’s a classic user, she knew she was just using everyone till the baby was born and that she was going back to him. She’d look you right in the eye and swear it was over and she would never go back… lol Laying Ho.

I cooked my wife breakfast and then dinner. She had her favorite Biscuits and Gravy for breakfast and for dinner she had noodles with Alfredo sauce, butter cooked shrimp, and mixed vegetables. Not a real complicated dinner but one everyone seemed to love. Or at least everyone compliment me on how good it was.

Shannon got to sleep in until about 11:30 this morning and then she was able to take a nap this afternoon. I really do hope she enjoyed her special day.

We didn’t get her the ring she wanted we are still a few hundred dollars short. Within a month or so we should have saved up enough money to get it for her. She will get it just a little late.

Tomorrow is the day we celebrate our mothers for giving birth to us. After seeing what my kids put there mother through it gives me more appreciation for my own. lol

My mother is 76 years old, she had me at 25 years old and turned 26 one month later. I was the second of 4 children. My older sister will be 52 this year, my younger will be 49, one year behind me. My youngest sister will be 45 this year (December). When you hear the expression time flies …it really does. I remember plain as yesterday my and my sisters playing in my grandmothers back yard, or riding in the back of that 1970 Ford Custom pickup truck. We roasted in the summer and froze every winter. All these years later I still don’t know why or I don’t understand why we did or couldn’t have a car. You don’t buy a single cab truck when you have 4 kids. What were they thinking or NOT thinking.

Well I didn’t want to get off to far, I’m just telling my mother that I love her and wish her a very HAPPY Mothers Day!

We’ve lived here for 4 years now and we have NO idea of the last time the septic was pumped. Well ready or not tomorrow we’ll spend a couple hundred bucks and have it emptied. So at least we will have a date and see how long it will take before it needs pumped again.

In my ‘Home Inspectors’ class the question always comes up about how often should your septic tank get pumped. The correct answer is never if it’s working properly. Some people say at least every two years, but my Spring Hill house has not had the septic pumped in over 18 years now. If it’s not broke don’t fix it is the motto to live by!

I really need to start exercising daily. I think what it is I hated exercising in the Army, because we did it everyday, and I’ve never grew to enjoy it. But I’m at a point in my life that I need to exercise because of health reasons. I don’t mean running, just a fasted pace walk. Along with some stretching and basic calisthenics.

What I really need is some type of motivation…

If she was in front of me that would give me some motivation to get me moving after her. It is so strange how a woman’s chest can motivate me! I’m sure I’m one of the few men that find this major motivation. LOL

Finally it’s over… She had the baby earlier today, I’m happy that is over but sad the way her life is going. She with a 4′-10″ asshole who manipulates her into anything he wants. He’s lived with his girl friend for the last month and the night the baby is born he the doting boyfriend. It’s really sickening to even see it. Neither of them work, how they still have a broke down trailer I don’t know, but I guess they’re getting back together.

She has baby sat kids for the past year to support them but now with a brand new baby shes not going to be able to for at least 3 – 4 weeks. He is driving a friends car around with expired tags on it. I can just see disaster approaching… hopefully not, but I can’t foresee anything else.

Good Luck, She is a beautiful baby…

Yes at 50 years old I’m a Dad to a 2 year old girl. Now this is all a little different from what I’m used to. I have 2 sons that are going on 19 and 16. I’ve always heard they were the same to raise… oh no, or at least in my case they’re not.

It could be I’m older and more relaxed about things. Maybe I’ve actually given up on a lot of things now. The little girl can do no wrong in my eyes. She’ll do something that I know I should fuss at her about and just can’t. She looks at me with those pretty blue eyes and all I can think of …it’s OK. It’s not just me either, the boys are as bad as me. She had my youngest son push the 4 wheeler around the yard while she sat on it because it was out of gas. The yesterday she has my oldest get her pool, fill it up, put bubbles in it, and keep refilling it as she poured out the water.

That HIGH pitched scream that will shatter glass, where did that come from. Whenever she’s playing or mad that’s when we all hear it. She runs around screaming! But that’s OK, she is so cute doing it. Don’t let anyone else touch my drinking glass or phone. I guess only her and I are able to do that. When she see’s someone touch my drink or pick up my phone she grabs at it screaming, “DADDY”. – I love it when she does that.

The saddest thing about it is my wife is the one that is going to have to discipline her. I’m pretty sure I won’t if it’s left up to me. I’ll get up a night just to stare at her and stand there in AWE of how beautiful she is. She truly is HELL on WHEELS when she’s awake! Her naps are 30 minute power naps.